If you’re waiting for that magical day when you’ll wake up a gorgeous womanizing stud, stop dreaming! It doesn’t work that way. You have to make it happen for you – it won’t happen on its own.
Do you consider yourself a man who has his own personal, unique style? By style I don’t just mean dress. I mean attitude as well. How do you act around women when you meet them? Your answer may determine
whether you’re going to end up a friend or a lover.
Tip:Men often complain that being a nice guy doesn’t work with women. You’re right – it doesn’t. But that doesn’t mean you have to turn into a jerk, either. You just have to realize that being nice in and of itself won’t
Focus on what you like in the mirror, not what could use improvement. Your confidence will appeal to all women.
win you any women. You have to supplement niceness with whatever it is she’s seeking – romance, excitement, or fun!
Don’t give up being a nice guy just because it hasn’t worked for you in the past. You simply need to alter your perception of women’s needs - and meet those needs to get women interested in you as more than a
friend.
This idea might make you uncomfortable. At first you might feel as if you’re not being true to yourself. Look at it this way – would you stand up and scratch your backside or burp loudly in church or in a job
interview? I hope not!
Dating is no different – you put your best foot forward in order to get results, just as you would to get a job. You behave in church because it’s the right thing to do. Hiding your true colors right off the bat isn’t being
manipulative - it’s being a good candidate for love.
Women are used to this measure of attraction. We do it every day – from wearing a face full of makeup to donning a stylish red lacey push-up bra to enhance our cleavage. Deceptive advertising? If you choose to look at it that way. I prefer to think of it as bringing out the best in ourselves.
by Tiffany Taylor
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