Approaching a Woman with Ease

Women are always looking for their knight in shining armor. Whenever you see the opportunity to help out a woman in any situation, go for it!

Even if it’s not a woman you’re particularly interested in, you can bet others are watching your heroic deed.

For instance, if an unruly or intoxicated man is hitting on a girl at a club, and you can tell she’s uncomfortable, then walk up and whisk her away while saying, “Hey sis! Let’s dance!”

This way, the other guy won’t pound you for moving in on his territory (since you’re the supposed brother), and the woman will immediately go with you because you’ve put the interaction on a harmless level.

You wouldn’t believe how often we women pretend a stranger sitting next to us is our long lost brother/nephew/father/uncle, etc., just to get out of a sticky situation.

Tip:
Rescuing a woman is the surest way to win her heart. Whether it’s from another man or an embarrassing situation, find a way to save the day and you’ll find yourself in her good graces.

It also works to your advantage to go out with girlfriends and female family members if you have some that are around your age. Why? Women want men who are liked by other women.

Woman want to know if you have a good relationship with your mom, if your sister is protective of you because some other wretched woman broke your heart, and if you stay friends with your exes – because it speaks well of you.

Woman love it when you have your sister walk up to ask us to dance for you. A dash of shyness is very sweet, and lets us know you’re vulnerable. Don’t always take the direct approach when indirect might be the perfect way to go!

Before you approach a woman, don’t stare her down or else she may catch you and find you creepy before you’ve ever said a word. Instead, casually make sure she’s not with another guy, and then find something
specific to say when you introduce yourself to her.

Don’t comment on the weather, or ask her what her sign is. Women don’t like pickup lines – even the cutesy ones about how it must have hurt when we fell from Heaven won’t win you any brownie points.

If you have to, pretend you’re doing her a favor. She’s sitting there waiting for a man to approach her because she’s too embarrassed to boldly begin talking to a man. If you can relate to her on some level –
even if it’s both of you waiting in line to buy a drink – mention it casually to her in a good-natured way, not negatively.

First meetings are always going to be nerve-wracking. Until your confidence level begins soaring, you'll probably always feel a little worried that your feelings won't be reciprocated. That's why it's best to approach a woman as a friend or casual acquaintance first, without any expectations of long-lasting love running through your mind.

by Tiffany Taylor